Half Moon Bay

I met L for lunch in Half Moon Bay after class on Saturday. We wanted to try out the famous lobster sandwich at Sam's. Apparently, it has been voted one of the best sandwiches in the country by NBC's Today show. The sandwich was ok. I enjoyed the clam chowder and the steamers. I think it's a nice place to go for beachside dining. There's outdoor seating, a firepit, and easy access to the beach.

It was a beautiful day and I had the idea to walk to the other end of HMB beach after lunch. It didn't look so far away.


Ahhh, the sound of the crashing waves. The smell of the ocean. It had been a while since I felt the sand in my toes (not since last summer).

We saw some wildlife.

It was something like 4 hours later when we finally finished our little walk. Walking in the sand was quite a workout and I'll have to admit I started whining a little somewhere around the halfway point. Still, it was a wonderful way to spend the afternoon.

Sunday at the Park

8/22/07 – I posted the pictures but never got around to writing about it till now. Better late than never! Eugene was so kind to organize this fun day for us. It was supposed to be at Lick Mill Park near his house, but when he arrived at the ungodly Sunday morning hour of 7.30am, all the picnic tables had already be taken! Plan B: a small park that was literally 2 minutes away from my house, one I never knew existed in the 8 years I’ve been living there.

It turned out to be a really nice spot. Our potluck picnic resulted in a veritable feast of burgers, hotdogs, potato salad, chips, samosas, fried rice, chow mein, Korean bbq ribs, grilled shrimp, kabobs, Hawaiian spam rolls (not sure what they are really called but they sure were yummy) and chocolate cupcakes. There was no shortage of food for sure!

The best part was just hanging out with everyone. We had a great group… adults, kids and 2 puppies. We got a game of wiffle ball going, which is essentially baseball using a plastic bat and ball. Fun! Then we played ‘Steal the Bacon’, where we had run around A LOT trying to steal the ball from the other team. Phew, some of us could really feel our age catching up on us then!

It was a wonderful way to enjoy the beautiful California sunshine.

Burgers and Hotdogs

This past weekend, we got together for a good ol' American cookout... hamburgers and hotdogs, thanks to Andy! This might have been the first time he actually cooked for us. Yay, keep it up! For dessert, we stuffed ourselves further with homemade caramel flan and tiramisu. Unfortunately, no one had any more room for the ice cream Quddus brought. We sure don't fool around when it comes to dessert!

A Thai Temple

Who knew there exists a Thai temple out in the Fremont foothills? Well, of course we weren't there on a Sunday to pray. (Although we did spend a couple minutes chanting with the monks).



We were there for the food!

Every Sunday volunteers will cook up authentic Thai dishes, which are offered to the public to raise money for the temple. We sampled almost everything - pad thai, grilled beef, chicken, fish wrapped in banana leaf, mango salad, noodle soup, sticky rice with mango and iced tea. It sounds like alot for just the 6 of us! Everything was about $5 on average. Tasty and for a good cause, right?

Is it possible to have

too much ice cream?

Saturday found us at Kelley Park in San Jose for Zoofari, a fundraiser featuring all-you-can-eat ice cream. Too much ice cream can cause... temporary insanity!

Make A Memory

I'm back to blogging... I think. I've been lazy for too long, and lots has happened since. The days seem to fly by, but at times the minutes are barely ticking along.

Listening to Bon Jovi's latest album, Lost Highway, and it brings back memories. I was 17, and so excited to attend my first concert ever. Bon Jovi was coming to town and playing at the Shah Alam stadium in Malaysia. I could remember it like it was yesterday.

Play Time

I can't resist going to the company's annual summer picnic. Even if it is in a less than attractive parking lot. I'm there to see my colleagues' other halves, their families... it's the other side that I don't get to see enough of at work. And there's nothing wrong with indulging in a little kiddie fun!

Catching Up

Wow, lots has happened since finals ended 2 weeks ago. It's like we've been let out of jail. Hehe!

First on the agenda, Chieu Yin and Kelly's graduation. The speeches were a tad too long, but it was great to be there to celebrate our dear friends' achievement. We capped it off with a big lunch at Zafran, an Indian/ Pakistani restaurant in Santa Clara. We could barely roll ourselves out of there, and had only a few hours to recuperate before the hot pot dinner that CY so graciously prepared for us at his house. It was delicious and a great way to introduce Fabio and our new friend Giorgio to hot pot. Thanks to CY for preparing the food!

The next day, another early wake up for our hiking trip at Pinnacles National Monument. It was a good workout for our first hike of the season. The best part was when we suddenly found ourselves in the pitch black darkness of the caves. It took us a while to even find the trail that was hidden behind some rocks. It was fun climbing around in the dark there. Most of us were pretty beat after the 8.5 miles, but some of us (2 guys and 1 girl) still had enough energy to do some serious shopping at the Gilroy factory outlets!

Fast forward to the next weekend. Saturday morning, we got together to hike up Mission Peak. It was a 5.6 mile hike, with 2200 feet in elevation gain. A real butt-kicker! We'll be ready for Half Dome for sure! And of course no hike can be complete without a big yummy lunch to erase the pain of the workout from our minds. ;-) Tacqueria Las Vegas.

On Sunday, a few brave souls went out to Point Reyes to check out the coastal views. It was incredibly cold and foggy when we arrived at the lighthouse. But by noon the fog had burned off, revealing another beautiful California summer day. We stopped at the Oyster Farm and thanks to Quddus we were soon enjoying a gourmet picnic lunch complete with fresh oysters! Then we hiked Pierce Point and got to see a few herds of elk peacefully grazing in the meadow. And if all that was not enough, we stopped at Marnee Thai as we passed through San Francisco on our way back. The food was excellent. I will definitely be back.

Yes, two busy weekends and more coming up. Summer has definitely arrived!

Sugar is Cheap

Tonight Jess and I rewarded ourselves after a workout at Decathlon with food, lotsa food. Sonoma Chicken Coop in Campbell was busy even after 9pm. We shared a chicken salad with goat cheese and avocado, and a boneless pork rib entree. Food was good and plentiful, although we were were less impressed with the cheap presentation on plastic plates. Real plates would've been nice, especially since we had to pick up our own orders at the self-serve counter.

For dessert we somehow ended up way out at McCarthy Ranch in Milpitas. This chinese dessert place was a real dissapointment! Both the Mango & Coconut Milk drink and Double-Boiled Egg White with Harsmar (harsmar!? sounds too weird... we should've known) turned out to be really bland. Our conclusion, a little bit of sugar would've perked it up. Definitely will not be back.

Personal Loans to Entrepreneurs in Need

We had an interesting visitor to our BUS202 class today. Matt Flannery, one of the founders of Kiva, an organization that lets you loan money to individual small entrepreneurs in African and other third world countries.

It's a great concept... with as little as $25, you can choose an entrepreneur that you want to help fund. These are people living in real proverty, who have to choose between medication for a sick child, or feeding their family for a week. Here, that $25 will go a long ways towards helping them improve their standard of living dramatically. Every penny of your money will go towards the loan and at the end of the loan period you will get your money back and you can then choose the next entrepreneur you want to back. In between, you'll get monthly email updates on the business' progress and results.

I think it's really cool being able to help a real person help himself.

Check out the website... www.kiva.org

Friday's Feast

One day late. Questions found here...

Appetizer
List 3 things you keep putting off.

Homework, cleaning the house, bedtime.

Soup
What do you feel is your greatest responsibility?

Work (need to pay the bills) and school (cannot flunk out!)

Salad
If you could have starred in any movie, which one would you have wanted to be in and why?

Not sure... any romantic comedy? Love happy endings and all things sweet. And I like to think it could actually happen in real life. ;-)

Main Course
What is an expectation you had as a child about being an adult and, now that you are grown up, you realize you were wrong?

That I'd have it all together and figured out by now. Career, family, life. In reality things don't always fall into place that easily and some tough decisions need to be made.

Dessert
When was the last time you had your car serviced?

Oil change, 6 weeks ago I think.

Super T

Ok, I'll admit. Super Taqueria on 10th St. serves up a pretty mean burrito. The tortilla is grilled and perfect, and the slices of avocado are a nice tasty surprise. And I love the green salsa hot sauce. Mmmm! Like CY said, it's nice we could have one last one before they close next Monday until sometime in the the winter for remodelling.

p.s. I cheated and had the veggie b. No way I could've eaten carne asada at this hour.

Together Apart??

Well, it's interesting to know it's more common than not these days, what with email and skype and cellphones and online dating. Just look within my group of friends, and there are at least 3 of us with long-distance significant others, and one long-distance marriage. But I never knew it was common enough to warrant this...

The Center of for the Study of Long Distance Relationships - Solutions for Separated Couples

They actually do real studies and research on this stuff!

According to Chris Bell who wrote "The Long-Distance Relationship Survival Guide", one of the pitfalls of long-distance relationships is the sometimes unrealistic romantic tone that it takes.

"Couples often plan exciting weekends with each other, creating a honeymoon-like fantasy atmosphere when they get together. Unlike in a relationship with someone living nearby, the mundane little things in life that are part of most romances are rarely factored in, potentially creating a relationship not as grounded in reality."

"A long-distance relationship can also mean more alone time than desired. If you decide you're going to pursue a monogamous, long-distance relationship, then that suddenly means your Saturday nights are really boring. And you can find yourself questioning whether you made the right decision..."

True that!!! I have worried that our short time periods together do take a less realistic dream-like tone. When you only have a few short days together, the last thing you want to do is pick a fight. And the lonely times do get pretty depressing some times, but one does get used to it...

But wait... there is hope...

Survival Tip #1

First and foremost, remember that despite anything people tell you to the contrary, studies have shown that LDRs have as much chance of making it as any other relationship.

Survival Tim #28

Research has shown that whenever we are separated from someone we care about, we experience a very normal range of emotions. Anger, guilt, depression, anxiety... Realize that sometimes these emotions may be caused simply by separation rather than something more complex.

And finally, some steps I found relevant for staying emotionally healthy in a LDR:

#2 Socialize. The answer to emotional and social loneliness is to get out and spend time with your friends.

#5 Take control. Recognize you have a choice in the decision to continue with the LDR rather than give up career goals, etc.

#7 View the separation as temporary.

Ok, that's enough heavy stuff for this morning!

Rain Rant

Woke up today to more rain. Will it ever stop? It's been 6 straight weeks of rain, and I know we Californian's are getting tired. We are paying premium housing and rent prices for sunshine dammit! My sister in Chicago is enjoying weather in the 80s!

Fortunately, the forecast for next week looks somewhat promising...